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Living in Texas can often feel like a paradox. While the state is known for its vast open spaces and welcoming Southern charm, it can also feel isolating—especially for gay men who are looking to build meaningful connections and find a community that truly feels…

Hey there, friends—Scotty here.  As we say goodbye to storm season, we also flip the page to Pride Month, and I’ve gotta be candid: this year Pride feels more vital than it’s been in a decade. Why? Because while the skies maybe getting calmer, the…

The other day, one of my clients said something that landed with the kind of weight you don’t forget: “I don’t know how to stop performing. Even in here, I’m trying to make you like me.” It wasn’t the first time I’d heard it. In…

A few years ago, I gave up soda. Just stopped. It wasn’t some grand moral stance, just one of those things where one day I realized I didn’t actually like it. Then, somewhere along the way, I quit drinking alcohol, too. Again, not a dramatic…