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Why Do I Keep Attracting Unavailable Men? A question I hear often from gay men navigating the dating world: “Why do I keep attracting emotionally unavailable men?” Some are charming but distant. Others are married—either to a woman, to their career, or to their fear…

It happened to my friend Paul the other night. We were sitting around at karaoke at the gay bar, a few drinks in, singing off-key to some pop anthem, when he turned to me and said something I never thought I’d hear from him. Paul—who,…

You finally made the decision to go to therapy. You did the research, found a highly rated therapist who lists “LGBTQ+ affirming” in their bio, and scheduled your first session. They’re warm, supportive, and clearly an ally. But something still feels… off. Maybe they nod…

I spend my days helping people find clarity, peace, and strength in a world that often seems intent on throwing obstacles in their way. But there are days when the weight of systemic injustices feels heavy, even as we strive to hold onto hope. November…