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So you think you want an open relationship At some point in almost every long-term gay relationship, the question comes up: Should we open things up? Sometimes it happens over brunch, when one of you casually mentions that you ran into a very attractive friend…

How Do I Handle Rejection Without It Wrecking My Confidence? Rejection sucks. Let’s just put that out there. Whether it’s getting ghosted, feeling like you’re always the one doing the chasing, or having a younger guy stop responding after you mention your (older) age, rejection…

Is It Normal to Feel Lonely Even When I’m Dating a Lot? It’s a curious thing. You swipe, match, text, meet up, maybe even spend the night. Rinse and repeat. On paper, your dating life is thriving. You have stories to tell, texts to decode,…

Why Do I Keep Attracting Unavailable Men? A question I hear often from gay men navigating the dating world: “Why do I keep attracting emotionally unavailable men?” Some are charming but distant. Others are married—either to a woman, to their career, or to their fear…