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Hey there, friends—Scotty here.  As we say goodbye to storm season, we also flip the page to Pride Month, and I’ve gotta be candid: this year Pride feels more vital than it’s been in a decade. Why? Because while the skies maybe getting calmer, the…

The other day, one of my clients said something that landed with the kind of weight you don’t forget: “I don’t know how to stop performing. Even in here, I’m trying to make you like me.” It wasn’t the first time I’d heard it. In…

So you think you want an open relationship At some point in almost every long-term gay relationship, the question comes up: Should we open things up? Sometimes it happens over brunch, when one of you casually mentions that you ran into a very attractive friend…

Why Do I Keep Attracting Unavailable Men? A question I hear often from gay men navigating the dating world: “Why do I keep attracting emotionally unavailable men?” Some are charming but distant. Others are married—either to a woman, to their career, or to their fear…